To learn more about the book “Sex Up Your Life: The Mind-Blowing Path to True Intimacy, Healing, and Hope,” listen to this video. 

What do Sex and the Map of Consciousness Have in Common?

We have designed an innovative container to support your overall well-being while bringing your sexual energy into powerful alignement with your essence. As you make your way up the Map of Consciousness, you increase your innate power to attract the life and relationships you want. It’s a process: we will show you how. 

What does this mean? You will be increasing your capacity for joy, intimacy, being in the senses, overall well-being, fulfilling sex, and manifesting delightful and heart-warming experiences that keep on expanding you. 

How? Through awareness, mindfulness, movement, breathing, exercises, skills learning, creativity, and guided journeys, you will enliven your mind, body, spirit, and sexual energy. You will discover a whole lot about yourself: guaranteed. 

Words of Praise

“The whole journey has been flabbergasting. The strongest thing that happened, I have a new capacity to see other people’s hidden baggage, more sensitive to their stuff. Now with my armour down, I can see the other person’s armour, I can see through their armour, and that is something new.”
“It’s a profound space to explore your state of being…a safe place of vulnerability and inner strength”

“Has changed my life… Thank you Julie.”


“It was terrifying, empowering, and exhilarating.”  

“So much resistances around this issue, and you think its about sex, in a way its not, its accessing all parts of yourself, even your shadow-self and learning how to embrace it, and look at it in a new way, be super creative in thinking your way through things so that you are not scared of it anymore, for me I’ve actually just come to fully embrace aspects of myself that I ran away from.” 

Course details

  • This is a 12-week program
  • Every week, you will engage in a rich and vibrant curriculum designed to help you progress up the Map of Consciousness and align to your true sexual essence.
  • We will learn skills, principles, play games, do exercises, create, express, introspect, and liberate whatever needs more space.
  • We will explore together the Sexual Continuum as depicted in “Sex Up Your Life” the book and explore the feelings on the Hawkins’ Map of Consciousness. 
  • We know that the conversation around sex can be triggering. This program is designed to nudge you kindly to grow. We require our participants to have a growth mindset and the courage for transformation.
  • We will encourage you to express your needs throughout the program and ask you to check-in as to be embodied in your experiences.
  • We are excited to grow with you!

Meet Julie. 

“Take a risk. Something inside will ignite and blaze. Guaranteed.”

Author of “Sex Up Your Life,” educator, creative, and healing coach. 

Meet Mike. 

“The growth mindset is what I live for. Map of Consciousness all the way!”

Relationship and Life Coach

“I now understand that sex is pure energy and for that reason, stirs up a lot of shit. So there is emotional work to do before, during and after sex to stay connected to oneself and partner. Knowing this emphasizes my need to give time for vulnerability, to take things slow and not just rush into sex where I know I can hide, but to actually cultivate the deep intimacy I want.”
“Wow, where do I start? I discovered my voice in the Incubator. There is so much power in being myself and letting myself be seen and fully received. And my fellow Incubatees held so much space for me in our sacred container. I was stretched, nurtured, understood and celebrated; it was terrifying, empowering and exhilarating.”

“I was also exposed to different backgrounds and cultures and I really appreciated the diversity of our group; I got a glimpse into their personal and cultural tragedies and the beauty they create from those stories and experiences. Everyone’s writing was beautiful, inspiring and breathtaking, it was the most honest and real experience of my life. “

I’m ready to jump in!

This program is designed for your growth, your creative empowerment, the strengthening of your voice, and the deepening of intimacy in your sexual life.  Find peace with your past, present, and futur!

GROUP SESSION: 4:00-7 pm (Pacific Time); 7:00-10 pm (Eastern Time)


“This program is worth more than the money it’s advertised for … thank you infinitely for your contribution to my life!” — Aly

“It was terrifying, empowering, and exhilarating.”  Julia 

12-week cycle


*12 weeks of content, learning, tools, creation, deepening & empowerment

*36 hours of live, curated, and guided group work

*4-hour private laser clarity coaching on issues of your choice

*An extra 30-min of support at end of weekly group session if extra processing is needed

*Access to videos to deepen the work

*A new relationship to your sexual energy and progress along your personal path on the Map of Consciousness

*A portfolio of Creative Assets, Exercises, Tools cumulated over 12-weeks

*An in-depth understanding of the book "Sex Up Your Life: The Mind-Blowing Path to True Intimacy, Healing, and Hope."




    submitted works from past participants

    A Participant Shares after 12-weeks: 

    The beauty of this new road,
    paved with care & support
    is not only embedded
    in the way it changes how I see myself,

    But it also has awakened new heights of courage,
    intention and consent to fully be me!
    Not knowing where the wave
    or chapter will take you next
    and the emotional waves can be big or small!

    They can push you to shore
    but they can also pull you under,
    leaving you in the dark just long enough
    for you to see what was hidden
    by the noise in your life.

    This beautiful discovery – Amazingly revealing was ready to emerge.

    In the dark you discover your light!

    In your vulnerability you discover your strenght!

    You follow that light and
    use that strength to land on shore
    Standing up straight in Love and acceptance!

    Feeling my feet land safely on shore, my stance is now stronger than ever before.

    My feet has brought me to many crossroads in the past
    However, the Incubator has washed over me like a tsunami
    washing away my old & outdated beliefs,
    clearing the way for a new era of connection,
    Love & Healing.

    We all deserve to grow & evolve
    and by allowing to do so
    We are ALL leading the way into a more connected & inclusive future!

    —love Sarah

    in this lamplight

    Kylene Hayley

    Dear Lover

    Matt Ireland // Kaliwahele Nen Thohahkwaht

    Equal fucks for all! 

    Sarah Kring

    we are breathing

    Alanah Caron

    Snakes and ladders

    Alanah Caron 

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